Events

2023 AUCTION: November 11, 2023 5:30pm

This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park

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Thank you for such a fabulous response to the auction! Unfortunately, the live auction is sold out. You are welcome to continue to bid online and attend the live auction on Zoom with a Zoom ticket purchased online. Thanks for your support!

Click here for zoom tickets

Click here for the online auction

 

 

 

Dear Members and Friends, 

The annual auction fundraiser for First Unitarian Church of Salt Lake City is scheduled for Saturday, November 11, 2023, 5:30 PM at This is the Place Heritage Park – Garden Place. The theme this year is “The Future’s So Bright, We’ve Gotta Wear Shades”! 

We are proud to announce that Nan Seymour will be this year’s Fairly Free Thinker Awardee.  Nan is a writer and activist working to save the Great Salt Lake. She led 45-day vigils on Antelope Island for the imperiled Lake throughout each of the Utah Legislature’s 2022 and 2023 sessions.  

A silent auction will begin online on November 4 and run through November 11. The in-person event from 5:30 to 9:30 PM on Saturday the 11th will include cocktails, dinner, Fairly Free Thinker Award, opportunity drawing, silent auction, and live auction. Location is This is the Place Heritage Park – Garden Place, 2601 East Sunnyside Ave. Childcare will be offered at the Church from 5:00 to 10:00 PM - so parents, you can have a night out (contact the office for a childcare registration form)!  

See instructions below on. All members who have never attended a First Church auction in past years can attend on November 11 for half-price!  You just need to pick up a half-price coupon at the Auction table in Eliot Hall after Sunday service. As you make your ticket donations and sponsorships remember that you will have the option to pay the credit card processing fees so that the church doesn’t have to. 

Register/Sponsorships & Tickets/Bid on Auction Items.
First, you need to Register.
Step 1: Go to the website: https://auctria.events/SLCUUChurchAuction
Step 2: Click on the Register button or click Register on the menu bar.
Step 3: Enter your name, address, phone number. (Your information may be in the fields already. If so, just continue on to add your credit card, or confirm that the credit card remains the same.)
Step 4: Click the blue button to Continue to Register Card.
Step 5: Enter Credit Card.
Step 6: Click the blue button to Continue to Review Registration.
Step 7: Enter any comments you have, Agree to Terms of Use and Complete Registration
Step 8: Go to your email.
Step 9: Copy the Access Code you were sent (it will be a combination of letters and numbers).
Step 10: When you are ready to make your ticket donation, sponsorships, or browse the catalog, return to Auctria and sign in with your Access Code.
    • You should only have to enter this once on a device, but keep it handy in case you log out of your account and need back in.
    • When you use a different device, enter this Access Code on the new device to use your Registered Account. SO SAVE THE EMAIL WITH YOUR ACCESS CODE!

Now you’re ready to make your ticket donation and sponsorships.  

Sponsorships
Make a donation as an Auction Sponsor to help underwrite expenses. Your sponsorship dollars will help ensure proceeds go directly to the important work of running First Unitarian Church. Last year the auction raised more than $80,000 for the Church, which included sponsor donations of around $15,000. Our goal is to equal or exceed those figures this year. 
 
How to become a Sponsor for the Auction:
Step 1: Go to the website: https://auctria.events/SLCUUChurchAuction, then scroll halfway down the page and click the button Tickets and Sponsorships.
    • $100 - Bronze level
    • $250 - Silver level 
  • Bronze and Silver level sponsors can also make a donation for tickets at the same time.
    • $500 - Gold level, includes 2 tickets
    • $1,000 - Platinum level, includes 4 tickets
  • Platinum and Gold level sponsors will claim your tickets at the same time as you make your sponsorship donation. 
Tickets to attend the Auction:
  • $100 - In-person Event November 11 (suggested donation for each ticket is $100. Tickets required so we can have an accurate food count)
  • $50 - Zoom Auction Ticket November 11

Have an item to donate to the auction?  We are still taking items and experiences..so reach out to the auction committee before November 1st (they will be at Coffee Hour for the next few Sundays).  Silent Auction items go live November 4th.

We strongly recommend that you download the Auctria app on your phone before the auction (Auctria Mobile Bidding), then enter your Access Code. This is a great way to make sure you are registered, have your credit card uploaded, and are ready to bid on the silent auction, which goes live on November 4th, and bid on items while you are at the auction event on November 11th.
 
Please join us at the Auction!
Your 2023 Auction Committee Co-chairs, Becky Heal, Michele Page and Nancy Moos. For questions, contact us at  

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Notice from the Board of Trustees
 
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Below is the Agenda for the Congregational Meeting that will follow the second service on Sunday, May 21st at 12:30pm.   

The meeting will be on our regular Sunday Service zoom link here. For those in-person, childcare will be available during the meeting.  

Agenda:
  • Call to Order & Welcome
  • New Member Welcome
  • Board Elections
  • Nominating Committee Elections
  • Endowment Report
  • Endowment Election
  • Senior Minister Contract Vote
    • Thank you to our Search Committee!
  • Pledge Report
  • 2022-23 Finance Report
  • 2023-24 Budget Vote
  • Litigation Updates
    • Abortion
    • Sanctuary
  • Thank you
  • Q&A
Notice from the Board of Trustees
 
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Below is the Agenda for the Congregational Meeting that will follow the second service on Sunday, April 30th at 12:30pm.   

The meeting will be on our regular Sunday Service zoom link here. For those in-person, childcare will be available during the meeting.  

Agenda:
  • Welcome
  • Vote to approve the Settled Senior Minister Candidate, Rev. J Sylvan (bio, intro video and past sermons link available on our website or click here)
Click Here for voting information and rules

Introducing our New Settled Senior Minister

Rev. J Sylvan
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Rev. J Sylvan was born in the Midwest and grew up in Indiana in the 80s and 90s. After college at Indiana University in Bloomington (B.A. 2006, in Religious Studies and East Asian Studies), they followed friends and art to Boston, where they began publishing and performing poetry, as well as teaching poetry to young people. They have had two books published (The Spark Singer, 2009 & Kissing Oscar Wilde, 2013), as well as articles, poetry, and stories including pieces in The Washington Post, BuzzFeed, and The Toast.
 
In 2012 J earned their yoga teacher certification at Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health, and for several years they managed a yoga studio in Somerville, Massachusetts, where they also taught Vinyasa and Restorative Yoga. At the same time, they became involved in the Boston theater and performing arts community. From 2012-2020, J wrote and produced numerous stage shows in the area and was a part of dozens more. In 2016 they accepted a Ministry Fellowship from Harvard Divinity School and spent the next three years studying with some brilliant and creative people, winning the Billings Preaching Prize, and creating their thesis project, Beloved King: A Queer Bible Musical, which Broadway World called “a very smart concept show with a bright future.”
 
J and their wife Sue were married in 2018 (by J’s yoga teacher under a disco ball in a service hosted by a drag performer dressed as Galadriel). J graduated from Harvard Divinity School in the spring of 2020 and interned at First Parish in Concord from 2020-2021—a formational experience that solidified their hunch that they were called to Parish Ministry. That summer, Sue and J’s son, Lucien Elijah was born, and that fall they went south so J could begin a two-year Interim Ministry position at Bay Area Unitarian Universalist Church in Houston, TX. Reverend J was ordained this February.
 
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Rev. J is thrilled to be called as Senior Minister at First Unitarian Church of Salt Lake City. They are excited to meet everyone, and they and their family look forward to settling into a community where they can put down roots and work to build a vibrant, radically welcoming spiritual home.. 

 ~~~~~

Here are some excerpts from Rev. J Sylvan's Ministerial Record

What ministry do you hope is ahead for you?

I see great potential for church communities to make space for and work in collaboration with art and artists, both in traditional worship services and beyond. Art, music, and performance can be expressions of divinity and connection, and I seek to explore opportunities to bring these experiences to faith communities in creative ways, such as supporting and hosting concerts, singalongs, plays, open mics, and music- based services outside of traditional Sunday morning worship times. My dream is a church that is known not only for progressive spirituality, deep connection, and social action, but also as a hub for community events, art, and culture.

In a more abstract sense, I hope to use my skills in ministry and the arts to combine the traditional and the radical, to find what works of our religion and fortify it, while burning away what no longer serves. I hope to lead a congregation into a future where Unitarian Universalism is re-imagined to welcome those who are currently on the margins. I want to help revitalize our faith's theological discussion, so that we are in conversation with the leading theologians of our time. I want to uplift the voices of young people and create a worship experience that is fulfilling to them. And through it all I want to help guide us all (myself included) in leading mindful, compassionate, and meaningful lives.

Describe your call to ministry. What life events have led you to this moment?

I was raised Christmas/Easter Catholic without much emphasis on religion, but from a young age, I connected to the Divine through art. The connection to the Mystery that I felt when listening to or making music and reading or writing poetry was undeniable, and I felt drawn to a life as a religious professional. However, I knew the Catholic church would never frock someone like me, so I threw myself into theater, art, and writing without much more thought about organized religion.

Then in college, I discovered and majored in Religious Studies, and found the study of religion deeply satisfying in a way that enriched the intuitive connection of my artistic practice. Specifically, my undergraduate studies focused primarily on Chinese and Japanese Buddhism, Daoism, earth-centered spirituality (the Deep Ecology movement and Permaculture farming), and Catholic mysticism. College was also when I attended my first UU services in Bloomington, IN. I remember the first service I attended included both a sermon about a scientific theory and a song about Jesus. My mind was blown and I knew I had found a spiritual home. The idea entered my heart that one day I would become a UU minister.

But I had many more years of romantic young adulthood to explore first. I pursued a life as a poet, theater artist, and yoga teacher in my twenties and early thirties, but I always had in the back of my mind that one day, I would be a minister serving a Unitarian Universalist church, helping to lead a community through the unanswerable questions and imperfect choices that make up this terrifying, beautiful life. When I saw the country's shift toward racist nationalism in 2016 on the heels of the Pulse nightclub shooting, I felt the suffering of the world rip through me. Something clicked and I knew it was time to begin my ministry journey. I may not be able to change the world, but I can be in it with good people as we struggle together to love one another and bend the arc.

Ministerial Roles & Functions

Describe how you handle being in a conflicted situation:

At Bay Area UU Church, I have navigated inter-staff conflicts and inter-congregant conflicts. In both situations, I strove to look foremost at the humanity of the individuals and act from there. I spoke with each party and asked questions to make sure I understood where they were coming from, while also drawing boundaries to avoid triangulation. From there, we established common ground, shared goals, and next steps to come back into covenant that frequently involved compromise.

Often times, the deep emotions that lead to heated conflict come from a place of pain, so I try to bring my pastoral heart to difficult conversations. Once again, I prefer clear and direct communication in situations of conflict. An uncomfortable 40 minute conversation is vastly preferable to the damage that can be caused by keeping disagreements under the surface.

In my many years as a theater producer, I have had ample opportunity to hone my conflict management skills. On several occasions performers clashed over creative differences or personality conflicts. In these situations, I make certain to listen to all parties' concerns and help to establish a compromise. If one party is acting abusively, I intervene and let them know that the behavior is not tolerated. But generally in the cases of difference of opinion or misunderstanding, I find compromise can be reached through mutual communication and respect.

Describe briefly your ministerial approach to the following:

Worship and preaching:

I was honored to win the Harvard Billings Preaching Prize in 2019 for a sermon that interwove academic interpretation of a sacred text, my own LGBTQ experience, and a call to action for us to notice when we are in the in-group and use our privilege to protect our marginalized siblings. Now, I spend the majority of an average week planning services and writing the sermon. I believe a strong service provides a gravitational center for a congregation. I truly love crafting and sharing the experience of worship with a community. I sometimes joke that even when I mostly wrote poetry, what I was really writing were little sermons. I like to draw on my background as a theater artist, poet, and songwriter to create full worship experiences that the community can help shape and participate in. I craft entire services with an intention in mind, interweaving readings, music, sermons, and other aspects. In my sermons I try to balance deep reflection and inspiring calls to action. I do not sugar coat hard truths, but I present them levelly and kindly.

My background as a yoga teacher and student of meditation often surfaces in my worship services. On a given week, you are probably equally likely to hear a prayer follow the sermon, or a vipassana- or metta-style meditation. (I'll also often throw a few shoulder-stretches in there as well, because we're all kinder when our shoulders are more relaxed.)

Ideally, as with most things, worship services will be collaborative efforts. I strive to work with the RE Director, the Music Director, and any other worship leaders to create a diverse service with a common vision. While I will guide the vision and sometimes have specific requests, I appreciate ideas that come from others. We begin to plan a service together and run our thoughts by one another as we go. Unless something MAJOR happens in the world or the congregation, I am not a last-minute worship-planner. Ideally we will have a general idea of the theme more than a month in advance, with music and other elements beginning to come together at least several weeks in advance. Usually I find events at the top of the news cycle can be incorporated into the prayer or sermon without changing the planned topic. Only very rarely have I torn up a sermon on Saturday and started over because of a headline, but it has happened (like when Russia invaded Ukraine). I follow my heart and my gut to discern when this type of last-minute shift is appropriate.

Pastoral Care / spiritual guidance / counseling / home and hospital visitation:

At Bay Area UU Church, I work with the Pastoral Care Team to manage the pastoral needs of the congregation, and make sure everyone's situation is addressed in a manner that is supportive and meaningful. I commit weekly dedicated time to managing pastoral concerns myself, as well as working with and supervising the Care Team. I find home and hospital visits deeply rewarding, and allow time in my schedule to prioritize such visits. Sometimes it may make more sense for a lay leader who is close to the person in question to take the lead on addressing a pastoral need. I am always available for guidance and reflection, both for individuals seeking pastoral care, and those lay leaders who provide it. Additionally, I meet regularly for spiritual care and counseling with individuals both at BAUUC and in the wider community, many of whom are LGBTQ+. I consider witnessing the pastoral milestones of congregants and helping them to make meaning from them a cherished responsibility.

Children's religious education:

Teaching middle school RE at First Parish in Cambridge was one of my first volunteer gigs in Unitarian Universalism! At Bay Area UU Church, I work closely with our Acting DLRE to find ways to make the children feel like they are part of the church community. We have done this by inviting them to act out skits in our worship services, by creating special events centered around them (Splash Day, Piñata Party, etc), and inviting them to participate in inter-generational events (a Talent Show, A Holiday Soiree, etc). As with the rest of my ministry, I find incorporating creativity such a theater, music, writing, or art into Children's RE can enrich the experience for everyone.

RE is vital not only for children, but for the health of our faith. If there are children in a congregation, a well-resourced Children's RE program should be a top priority. Additionally, I would like to move away from completely segregating adults' and children's worship experience, as I feel that is to the detriment of our denomination, as well as the wisdom different generations can offer one another. I feel it is important to have a children's message or time for all ages in the Sunday service, as well as more opportunities for multi-generational worship and activities.

Youth work:

I draw on years as a poetry teacher and creative writing mentor for teens, and I even have a spiritual poetry writing and performing curriculum for youth prepared. I've seen so many young people come out of their shells when given a safe space to explore their developing voice. With this age group, it's important that they feel empowered, so I like to uplift natural leaders within the group and offer lots of opportunities for feedback and suggestions of where to go next.

Oftentimes, youth have their own needs and ideas about how they want to channel their faith. Clergy, staff, and lay leaders have a unique opportunity in these cases to take the lead of the youth, while using our experience and wisdom to help them be successful in their endeavors, be they rallies, fundraisers, chalice circles, or action groups.

Adult religious education:

At Bay Area UU Church, I've implemented regular Pub Theology nights, a Hebrew Bible learning circle, and an LGBTQ+ Spirituality group. All have in drawn adults from the congregation as well as the wider area, and have invited deep conversation and connection, as well as learning opportunities.

Adult RE provides great opportunities not only for enrichment and education, but also for community building and deepening. I find that RE classes can provide adults with shared knowledge and experience that can strengthen bonds. I also like to use Adult RE as a place to challenge previously held beliefs, and educate about social issues with segues into social action.

Incorporating music, the arts, and creativity into congregational life:

I like to empower the community to bring their creativity into their spiritual life and vice versa. At BAUUC, we've held two events that centered live music and/or literature, both of which raised money for social justice issues and the church and built community. At First Parish in Concord I led a Spiritual Memoir writing workshop, and have a curriculum ready for a youth poetry program, drawing on my years as a youth poetry instructor. I intend to explore many more possibilities of incorporating the arts into congregational life in a settled ministry, such as more music-centered worship. Indeed, my vision is a church that is deeply intertwined with arts and culture.

Experiencing the Divine through art, music, etc is one of the surest ways to cross barriers. I feel music should be interwoven into services in an intentional way that deepens and helps carry the experience, not simply as entertainment or pretty songs (though sometimes that's nice too!) In worship, I like to draw from a variety of musical and artistic sources. In addition to our hymns, I've used showtunes, pop songs, and folk music in services, and I have created worship services based on musical theater, Afro-futurist novels, poetry, and comedy sketches. I've invited guest musicians, touring acts, and performance artists, and a Henry David Thoreau impersonator to perform both during services and at special events. Sometimes, in lieu of a reading, I'll insert a skit or a theatrical monologue into a service. The interweaving of art and congregational life is central to my ministry.

Describe your theology and the role of the ministry in a congregation that has multiple theologies:

I am both someone who has always felt a mystical connection with the Divine and an inherently skeptical person. At this point in my life, I call myself a faithful agnostic-- meaning one who thinks knowing the Divine--even if there is a Divine--is impossible for human beings. The first theological writings that I connected to deeply were apophatic mystics such as Julian of Norwich, John of the Cross, Teresa of Avila, and Meister Eckhart. These writers stressed the ineffable nature of the Divine, and to this day, I believe that we can only talk around whatever God or Divinity is. This is why I frequently call it "the Mystery." This is also why I find mythologies and art to be vital to a spiritual life, as they are some of our best attempts at "talking around" the Mystery. Indeed, they may be the nearest we can come to speaking its name.

While I come from and claim my Catholic background, my theology is also informed by my study of Buddhism, Daoism, Hinduism, Judaism, Islam, earth-based spirituality, and Shintoism. My many years as a yoga teacher and meditation student lends my intellectual mysticism a grounding in mindfulness and embodiment.

Queer biblical interpretation has been a relatively recently discovered passion, but I incorporate wisdom, mythology, and writings from many sources into my theology and ministerial practice. I have a wide command of literature owing to my younger years as a performing and published poet.

While I minister from my theology, I like to hold a large theological container in worship. In pastoral situations, I will follow the lead of the person being ministered to regarding theology. My role in this context is to empower congregants to discover and affirm their own theologies using my knowledge and experience background.

Introducing our Candidate for New Settled Minister

Rev. J Sylvan
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Rev. J Sylvan was born in the Midwest and grew up in Indiana in the 80s and 90s. After college at Indiana University in Bloomington (B.A. 2006, in Religious Studies and East Asian Studies), they followed friends and art to Boston, where they began publishing and performing poetry, as well as teaching poetry to young people. They have had two books published (The Spark Singer, 2009 & Kissing Oscar Wilde, 2013), as well as articles, poetry, and stories including pieces in The Washington Post, BuzzFeed, and The Toast.
 
In 2012 J earned their yoga teacher certification at Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health, and for several years they managed a yoga studio in Somerville, Massachusetts, where they also taught Vinyasa and Restorative Yoga. At the same time, they became involved in the Boston theater and performing arts community. From 2012-2020, J wrote and produced numerous stage shows in the area and was a part of dozens more. In 2016 they accepted a Ministry Fellowship from Harvard Divinity School and spent the next three years studying with some brilliant and creative people, winning the Billings Preaching Prize, and creating their thesis project, Beloved King: A Queer Bible Musical, which Broadway World called “a very smart concept show with a bright future.”
 
J and their wife Sue were married in 2018 (by J’s yoga teacher under a disco ball in a service hosted by a drag performer dressed as Galadriel). J graduated from Harvard Divinity School in the spring of 2020 and interned at First Parish in Concord from 2020-2021—a formational experience that solidified their hunch that they were called to Parish Ministry. That summer, Sue and J’s son, Lucien Elijah was born, and that fall they went south so J could begin a two-year Interim Ministry position at Bay Area Unitarian Universalist Church in Houston, TX. Reverend J was ordained this February.
 
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Rev. J is thrilled to be the candidate for Senior Minister at First Unitarian Church of Salt Lake City. They are excited to meet everyone, and they and their family look forward to settling into a community where they can put down roots and work to build a vibrant, radically welcoming spiritual home. 

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Check out a short introduction video from Rev. J.  You can also visit Rev. J's website by Clicking Here , where you can watch prior sermons and learn more about Rev. J.

Rev. J will give the sermon on both April 23rd and April 30th.  

April 23rd
9am Service
11am Service Following the 11am Service there will be a break (finger foods available in Eliot Hall), then at 12:30pm there will be a Q & A session held in the chapel and live-streamed on zoom.
 
April 30th 
9am Service
11am Service
At 12:30pm in the chapel, a congregational vote will be held to confirm approval for our new settled senior minister.Watch for a complete event schedule of this week to be posted soon.
 

Important: Most Senior Ministers will only accept a call as a settled minister if 90-95% of the congregation approvestheir candidacy as the new senior minister (even though Bylaws allow as low as 75% approval).  So your vote and understanding the voting process is very important.  

For voting process details CLICK HERE 

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Here are some excerpts from Rev. J Sylvan's Ministerial Record

What ministry do you hope is ahead for you?

I see great potential for church communities to make space for and work in collaboration with art and artists, both in traditional worship services and beyond. Art, music, and performance can be expressions of divinity and connection, and I seek to explore opportunities to bring these experiences to faith communities in creative ways, such as supporting and hosting concerts, singalongs, plays, open mics, and music- based services outside of traditional Sunday morning worship times. My dream is a church that is known not only for progressive spirituality, deep connection, and social action, but also as a hub for community events, art, and culture.

In a more abstract sense, I hope to use my skills in ministry and the arts to combine the traditional and the radical, to find what works of our religion and fortify it, while burning away what no longer serves. I hope to lead a congregation into a future where Unitarian Universalism is re-imagined to welcome those who are currently on the margins. I want to help revitalize our faith's theological discussion, so that we are in conversation with the leading theologians of our time. I want to uplift the voices of young people and create a worship experience that is fulfilling to them. And through it all I want to help guide us all (myself included) in leading mindful, compassionate, and meaningful lives.

Describe your call to ministry. What life events have led you to this moment?

I was raised Christmas/Easter Catholic without much emphasis on religion, but from a young age, I connected to the Divine through art. The connection to the Mystery that I felt when listening to or making music and reading or writing poetry was undeniable, and I felt drawn to a life as a religious professional. However, I knew the Catholic church would never frock someone like me, so I threw myself into theater, art, and writing without much more thought about organized religion.

Then in college, I discovered and majored in Religious Studies, and found the study of religion deeply satisfying in a way that enriched the intuitive connection of my artistic practice. Specifically, my undergraduate studies focused primarily on Chinese and Japanese Buddhism, Daoism, earth-centered spirituality (the Deep Ecology movement and Permaculture farming), and Catholic mysticism. College was also when I attended my first UU services in Bloomington, IN. I remember the first service I attended included both a sermon about a scientific theory and a song about Jesus. My mind was blown and I knew I had found a spiritual home. The idea entered my heart that one day I would become a UU minister.

But I had many more years of romantic young adulthood to explore first. I pursued a life as a poet, theater artist, and yoga teacher in my twenties and early thirties, but I always had in the back of my mind that one day, I would be a minister serving a

Unitarian Universalist church, helping to lead a community through the unanswerable questions and imperfect choices that make up this terrifying, beautiful life. When I saw the country's shift toward racist nationalism in 2016 on the heels of the Pulse nightclub shooting, I felt the suffering of the world rip through me. Something clicked and I knew it was time to begin my ministry journey. I may not be able to change the world, but I can be in it with good people as we struggle together to love one another and bend the arc.

Ministerial Roles & Functions

Describe how you handle being in a conflicted situation:

At Bay Area UU Church, I have navigated inter-staff conflicts and inter-congregant conflicts. In both situations, I strove to look foremost at the humanity of the individuals and act from there. I spoke with each party and asked questions to make sure I understood where they were coming from, while also drawing boundaries to avoid triangulation. From there, we established common ground, shared goals, and next steps to come back into covenant that frequently involved compromise.

Often times, the deep emotions that lead to heated conflict come from a place of pain, so I try to bring my pastoral heart to difficult conversations. Once again, I prefer clear and direct communication in situations of conflict. An uncomfortable 40 minute conversation is vastly preferable to the damage that can be caused by keeping disagreements under the surface.

In my many years as a theater producer, I have had ample opportunity to hone my conflict management skills. On several occasions performers clashed over creative differences or personality conflicts. In these situations, I make certain to listen to all parties' concerns and help to establish a compromise. If one party is acting abusively, I intervene and let them know that the behavior is not tolerated. But generally in the cases of difference of opinion or misunderstanding, I find compromise can be reached through mutual communication and respect.

Describe briefly your ministerial approach to the following:

Worship and preaching:

I was honored to win the Harvard Billings Preaching Prize in 2019 for a sermon that interwove academic interpretation of a sacred text, my own LGBTQ experience, and a call to action for us to notice when we are in the in-group and use our privilege to protect our marginalized siblings. Now, I spend the majority of an average week planning services and writing the sermon. I believe a strong service provides a gravitational center for a congregation. I truly love crafting and sharing the experience of worship with a community. I sometimes joke that even when I mostly wrote poetry, what I was really writing were little sermons. I like to draw on my background as a theater artist, poet, and songwriter to create full worship experiences that the community can help shape and participate in. I craft entire services with an intention in mind, interweaving readings, music, sermons, and other aspects. In my sermons I try to balance deep reflection and inspiring calls to action. I do not sugar coat hard truths, but I present them levelly and kindly.

My background as a yoga teacher and student of meditation often surfaces in my worship services. On a given week, you are probably equally likely to hear a prayer follow the sermon, or a vipassana- or metta-style meditation. (I'll also often throw a few shoulder-stretches in there as well, because we're all kinder when our shoulders are more relaxed.)

Ideally, as with most things, worship services will be collaborative efforts. I strive to work with the RE Director, the Music Director, and any other worship leaders to create a diverse service with a common vision. While I will guide the vision and sometimes have specific requests, I appreciate ideas that come from others. We begin to plan a service together and run our thoughts by one another as we go. Unless something MAJOR happens in the world or the congregation, I am not a last-minute worship-planner. Ideally we will have a general idea of the theme more than a month in advance, with music and other elements beginning to come together at least several weeks in advance. Usually I find events at the top of the news cycle can be incorporated into the prayer or sermon without changing the planned topic. Only very rarely have I torn up a sermon on Saturday and started over because of a headline, but it has happened (like when Russia invaded Ukraine). I follow my heart and my gut to discern when this type of last-minute shift is appropriate.

Pastoral Care / spiritual guidance / counseling / home and hospital visitation:

At Bay Area UU Church, I work with the Pastoral Care Team to manage the pastoral needs of the congregation, and make sure everyone's situation is addressed in a manner that is supportive and meaningful. I commit weekly dedicated time to managing pastoral concerns myself, as well as working with and supervising the Care Team. I find home and hospital visits deeply rewarding, and allow time in my schedule to prioritize such visits. Sometimes it may make more sense for a lay leader who is close to the person in question to take the lead on addressing a pastoral need. I am always available for guidance and reflection, both for individuals seeking pastoral care, and those lay leaders who provide it. Additionally, I meet regularly for spiritual care and counseling with individuals both at BAUUC and in the wider community, many of whom are LGBTQ+. I consider witnessing the pastoral milestones of congregants and helping them to make meaning from them a cherished responsibility.

Children's religious education:

Teaching middle school RE at First Parish in Cambridge was one of my first volunteer gigs in Unitarian Universalism! At Bay Area UU Church, I work closely with our Acting DLRE to find ways to make the children feel like they are part of the church community. We have done this by inviting them to act out skits in our worship services, by creating special events centered around them (Splash Day, Piñata Party, etc), and inviting them to participate in inter-generational events (a Talent Show, A Holiday Soiree, etc). As with the rest of my ministry, I find incorporating creativity such a theater, music, writing, or art into Children's RE can enrich the experience for everyone.

RE is vital not only for children, but for the health of our faith. If there are children in a congregation, a well-resourced Children's RE program should be a top priority. Additionally, I would like to move away from completely segregating adults' and children's worship experience, as I feel that is to the detriment of our denomination, as well as the wisdom different generations can offer one another. I feel it is important to have a children's message or time for all ages in the Sunday service, as well as more opportunities for multi-generational worship and activities.

Youth work:

I draw on years as a poetry teacher and creative writing mentor for teens, and I even have a spiritual poetry writing and performing curriculum for youth prepared. I've seen so many young people come out of their shells when given a safe space to explore their developing voice. With this age group, it's important that they feel empowered, so I like to uplift natural leaders within the group and offer lots of opportunities for feedback and suggestions of where to go next.

Oftentimes, youth have their own needs and ideas about how they want to channel their faith. Clergy, staff, and lay leaders have a unique opportunity in these cases to take the lead of the youth, while using our experience and wisdom to help them be successful in their endeavors, be they rallies, fundraisers, chalice circles, or action groups.

Adult religious education:

At Bay Area UU Church, I've implemented regular Pub Theology nights, a Hebrew Bible learning circle, and an LGBTQ+ Spirituality group. All have in drawn adults from the congregation as well as the wider area, and have invited deep conversation and connection, as well as learning opportunities.

Adult RE provides great opportunities not only for enrichment and education, but also for community building and deepening. I find that RE classes can provide adults with shared knowledge and experience that can strengthen bonds. I also like to use Adult RE as a place to challenge previously held beliefs, and educate about social issues with segues into social action.

Incorporating music, the arts, and creativity into congregational life:

I like to empower the community to bring their creativity into their spiritual life and vice versa. At BAUUC, we've held two events that centered live music and/or literature, both of which raised money for social justice issues and the church and built community. At First Parish in Concord I led a Spiritual Memoir writing workshop, and have a curriculum ready for a youth poetry program, drawing on my years as a youth poetry instructor. I intend to explore many more possibilities of incorporating the arts into congregational life in a settled ministry, such as more music-centered worship. Indeed, my vision is a church that is deeply intertwined with arts and culture.

Experiencing the Divine through art, music, etc is one of the surest ways to cross barriers. I feel music should be interwoven into services in an intentional way that deepens and helps carry the experience, not simply as entertainment or pretty songs (though sometimes that's nice too!) In worship, I like to draw from a variety of musical and artistic sources. In addition to our hymns, I've used showtunes, pop songs, and folk music in services, and I have created worship services based on musical theater, Afro-futurist novels, poetry, and comedy sketches. I've invited guest musicians, touring acts, and performance artists, and a Henry David Thoreau impersonator to perform both during services and at special events. Sometimes, in lieu of a reading, I'll insert a skit or a theatrical monologue into a service. The interweaving of art and congregational life is central to my ministry.

Describe your theology and the role of the ministry in a congregation that has multiple theologies:

I am both someone who has always felt a mystical connection with the Divine and an inherently skeptical person. At this point in my life, I call myself a faithful agnostic-- meaning one who thinks knowing the Divine--even if there is a Divine--is impossible for human beings. The first theological writings that I connected to deeply were apophatic mystics such as Julian of Norwich, John of the Cross, Teresa of Avila, and Meister Eckhart. These writers stressed the ineffable nature of the Divine, and to this day, I believe that we can only talk around whatever God or Divinity is. This is why I frequently call it "the Mystery." This is also why I find mythologies and art to be vital to a spiritual life, as they are some of our best attempts at "talking around" the Mystery. Indeed, they may be the nearest we can come to speaking its name.

While I come from and claim my Catholic background, my theology is also informed by my study of Buddhism, Daoism, Hinduism, Judaism, Islam, earth-based spirituality, and Shintoism. My many years as a yoga teacher and meditation student lends my intellectual mysticism a grounding in mindfulness and embodiment.

Queer biblical interpretation has been a relatively recently discovered passion, but I incorporate wisdom, mythology, and writings from many sources into my theology and ministerial practice. I have a wide command of literature owing to my younger years as a performing and published poet.

While I minister from my theology, I like to hold a large theological container in worship. In pastoral situations, I will follow the lead of the person being ministered to regarding theology. My role in this context is to empower congregants to discover and affirm their own theologies using my knowledge and experience background.

 

Notice of Congregational Meeting

November 20th 12:15pm in the Chapel

(also live-streamed on zoom: Zoom Link)

There will be a Congregational Meeting on Nov 20th at 12:15pm in the chapel for the following discussion and vote.

AGENDA

  • Utah Abortion Litigation - Information and Vote to sign on to support 
  • Vote to approve final member of Serach Committee - Sherri Wittwer 
  • Sanctuary Civil Fines Lawsuit Update
  • Short Finance Update from the Board
Included are links to information you should read before the meeting:
Abortion Issue: Click Here
Sherri Wittwer Bio: Click Here
Sanctuary Fines Update: Click Here

 

Meeting will be live streamed on zoom on the regular zoom link listed above and on the front page of the website.  For those in-person, childcare will be available during the meeting.  Lunch will not be available, so bring a snack if needed. We look forward to seeing everyone, in-person and on zoom.

2022 AUCTION: October 22, 2022 6pm

This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park

 

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The good news and the better news!

Good news! We have exceeded our ticket goal!  Now, let's see if we can smash it! It's not too late to purchase a live or zoom ticket to our 2022 Auction.  Here's the link:

 

If you want to bid, but can't attend either the live or zoom auction, go here to register:

 

Better news! This year is one of the most impressive auctions we've ever seen.  Go here to be awed and amazed then browse and bid:
 
Your 2022 Auction Committee
Michele Page and Becky Heal, co-chairs
Cathy Chambless, Jessica French, Tracy Walton, Colleen Bliss, Nancy Moos, Darlene Thayne, Alice Brown, Nikki Blackburn, Donnie Davis, Eve Smith, Sherri Wittwer, Jo Jennings, Cheryl Johnson, Jan Crane, Robin Dale, Julia Kleinschmidt
For questions, contact us at

 

2022 AUCTION: October 22, 2022 6pm

This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park

 

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You won’t want to miss this year’s annual auction fundraiser of First Unitarian Church of Salt Lake City! The date is Saturday, October 22 at 6 pm, at a new venue for 2022, This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park.

The Annual Auction Needs You!

Silent Auction goes live Saturday, October 15th at 10am. 
Take this opportunity to begin bidding on exciting items.  If you’re not going to be around for the LIVE event, this is your opportunity to bid on some great items.  Be sure to have your credit card registered also, or you will not be able to bid. 
 
Join us for the LIVE event on Saturday, October 22nd at 6pm at This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park. 
You still have a few day to get your tickets, don’t miss out!  This event has a NEW video that will premier that evening.  You definitely don’t want to miss it, nor the wide variety of live auction items.
 

SPONSORSHIPS & TICKETS (LIVE & ZOOM)

OTHER CASH DONATIONS (ANY AMOUNT)

 
Fairly Free Thinker Award
Your Auction Committee is excited to announce this year’s recipient of the Fairly Free Thinker Award - Karrie Galloway and Planned Parenthood Association of Utah!  After four decades of fighting for women’s bodily autonomy, Karrie is retiring as executive director and CEO of PPAU at the end of this year. Planned Parenthood of Utah filed a lawsuit in July challenging Utah’s abortion “trigger law” that is making its way through the courts. We are very pleased to recognize and honor Karrie and PPAU as our Fairly Free Thinker awardees!
 
Options for auction participation!
The in-person event at This Is the Place Garden Place will include cocktails and dinner, silent auction, raffle, live auction, and the awarding of the annual Fairly Free Thinker Award. Tickets are $100 per person

The virtual event will offer remote access on Zoom, for the real-time live auction, silent auction, and the awarding of the Fairly Free Thinker Award. Tickets are $50 per person

The online silent auction will open online one week prior to the live event, on Saturday October 15th.  Even if you are not able to participate in person or virtually, you may still bid on the wonderful dinners, event tickets, art work, raffle baskets, and other surprising experiences!

All donors will receive recognition on the auction website and at the in-person event.

$100  –   Bronze level
$250  –   Silver level 
$500  –   Gold level,  receives 2 free tickets!
$1,000 – Platinum level, receives 4 free tickets!
 
Our theme this year is “Don’t Stop Thinking About Tomorrow”.  We all need to be thinking about our future, what we want, what we need, and what we are willing to do to make it happen.  Please help by becoming a sponsor for this year’s auction.
 
Your 2022 Auction Committee
Michele Page and Becky Heal, co-chairs
Cathy Chambless, Jessica French, Tracy Walton, Colleen Bliss, Nancy Moos, Darlene Thayne, Alice Brown, Nikki Blackburn, Donnie Davis, Eve Smith, Sherri Wittwer, Jo Jennings, Cheryl Johnson, Jan Crane, Robin Dale, Julia Kleinschmidt
For questions, contact us at

 

2022 AUCTION: October 22, 2022 6pm

This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park

 

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You won’t want to miss this year’s annual auction fundraiser of First Unitarian Church of Salt Lake City! The date is Saturday, October 22 at 6 pm, at a new venue for 2022, This is the Place – The Garden Place at Heritage Park.

Your Auction Committee is excited to announce this year’s recipient of the Fairly Free Thinker Award – Karrie Galloway and Planned Parenthood Association of Utah!  After four decades of fighting for women’s bodily autonomy, Karrie is retiring as executive director and CEO of PPAU at the end of this year. Planned Parenthood of Utah filed a lawsuit in July challenging Utah’s abortion “trigger law” that is making its way through the courts. We are very pleased to recognize and honor Karrie and PPAU as our Fairly Free Thinker awardees!

We are asking if you will consider helping sponsor the Auction this year. Sponsorships are used to underwrite expenses for the auction to ensure all proceeds go directly to the mission of First Church.

Why support the auction? Read Michele Page’s reasons:

My wife, Sue, and I began attending First UU Church of SLC around 2004. I was first to attend, having heard Rev. Tom Goldsmith speak before. Sue was quite reluctant, given the fact that we were each raised in the LDS faith and attended BYU (I know, right!). But seriously, we were both traumatized by experiences within the LDS church, especially me. I had to endure two bishops’ courts at BYU – the trauma has had a lifelong impact on me.  Neither of us wanted anything to do with organized religion ever again. Reluctantly, Sue agreed to attend a service after much insistence by me. Sue equally loved Tom’s sermons and soon we were holding a child dedication for our daughter in early 2005. We have been members since that time. 

We raised our son and daughter in the religious education program and are grateful for the valuable information they gained over the years. They both went to Boston with their peers and loved the trip and learning about UU history. First UU Church has been a tremendous asset in our lives. We have developed life-long friendships and found a like-minded community of incredible individuals. 

Over the years we have held many positions, including co-chairs of Social Justice and Pledge Committees. Sue served on the Board for 6 years, 2 as President. We taught 1st grade RE (that’s another story) and served as leaders and members of Small Group Ministry for years. I have also served as auction chair for several years, and co-chair this year. We are grateful for this church and our UU friends.

Please consider becoming a sponsor for this year’s auction. 

  – Michele Page

Options for auction participation!

The in-person event at This Is the Place Garden Place will include cocktails and dinner, silent auction, raffle, live auction, and the awarding of the annual Fairly Free Thinker Award. Tickets are $100 per person

The virtual event will offer remote access on Zoom, for the real-time live auction, silent auction, and the awarding of the Fairly Free Thinker Award. Tickets are $50 per person

The online silent auction will open online one week prior to the live event, on Saturday October 15th.  Even if you are not able to participate in person or virtually, you may still bid on the wonderful dinners, event tickets, art work, raffle baskets, and other surprising experiences!

How to become a sponsor for the auction:

Go online to the 2022 church auction page CLICK HERE and scroll down to “Donate Now.” You may register for the auction now, or at a later time.

Or

If you plan to attend the auction (in-person or virtual), CLICK HERE to buy your tickets AND become a sponsor.  This path will register you for the auction. 

All donors will receive recognition on the auction website and at the in-person event.

$100  –   Bronze level
$250  –   Silver level 
$500  –   Gold level,  receives 2 free tickets!
$1,000 – Platinum level, receives 4 free tickets!
 
Our theme this year is “Don’t Stop Thinking About Tomorrow”.  We all need to be thinking about our future, what we want, what we need, and what we are willing to do to make it happen.  Please help by becoming a sponsor for this year’s auction.
 
Your 2022 Auction Committee
Michele Page and Becky Heal, co-chairs
Cathy Chambless, Jessica French, Tracy Walton, Colleen Bliss, Nancy Moos, Darlene Thayne, Alice Brown, Nikki Blackburn, Donnie Davis, Eve Smith, Sherri Wittwer, Jo Jennings, Cheryl Johnson, Jan Crane, Robin Dale, Julia Kleinschmidt
For questions, contact us at